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It was making me feel like crap, so I went to Europe, specifically Stockholm, and immediately got laid."For the time being, going to Europe is off the table for me, if only because I hid my passport from myself after a long-distance tryst with someone I'd met on a work trip went sideways.
Luckily, OKCupid's data is much more optimistic than my friend Chelsea.
Every conversation led to how I needed to lose 20#. So, I lost 30 pounds, whitened my teeth, updated my hair style and my wardrobe, and started pampering myself. We will be sharing a front lawn, and my office window overlooks where he parks his harley. Datinggoddess, is this a cruel joke, or a chance for me to exact revenge?
I also began working on my inside: My attitude, femininity, and self-esteem. Thank God for the Grapefruit Diet and my hula hoop. I know this letter is long, but I love to write, and feel a certain “kindredness” with you.
As I waded through Ok Cupid's endless questions and block of text, I imagined the countless men of New York City setting their age filters to 35 or, gasp, 39, and I wondered if it was true that anyone who didn't accept me as I am isn't worth knowing.
It never occurred to me in a serious way before this to lie about my age, even when I hit 30 or 35.
Still, the day after I turned 40, I decided to fire up an old profile and see what happened.
I'd taken a break from dating after a quick but hot liaison with a punk I'd met at a Damned concert petered out, but I wanted to, you know, put the vibes out there into the universe.
Dating in my twenties and thirties made me feel like Odysseus, trying to choose between dashing myself on the ego-bruising rocks of casual romps or a slow death from unrequited lust for garbage humans.
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